January Focus Goals

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Word for the Year is FOCUS. This year, I'm concentrating on being more organized and sharing my focus goals each month.


My Word for the Year is FOCUS and though we are only 11 days into January, I’m feeling really good about it. These are not resolutions but a focus on the goals I have for each month.

One thing I am focusing on this year is being more organized and focused on accomplishing my goals. For a few years now I’ve seen several blogs list their goals on the first of the month with a wrap-up of the accomplishments from the previous month. I’ve also seen some very cool monthly blogging income reports and WOW! If only, right!

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January Focus Goals

In blogging

  • Continue to learn about SEO and Sticky Blogging from *Kelly of Sticky Blogging – LOVE HER! Of all the courses I’ve ever taken, both Sticky Blogging and Sticky Blogging SEO were by far the most informative and helpful. Plus Kelly is incredibly gracious, responsive and truly a wonderful person. I would take any course she offers, and have! 1. For January, I plan to create my Trophy Case of posts. and 2. Begin process of organizing old posts/reviews into better accessible lists.
  • 3. Update 20 old book reviews with SEO and the *Ultimate Book Blogging app {I’m embarrassed to say my first 2 years of book blogging are still not on the UBB app and not showing up on my book review lists}

What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals. ~Zig Zigler

In reading

  • I’ve avoided challenges in the past because I never stick it out or if I do, it’s only by accident. Then I forget to update. Aargh! So this year I’m using a spreadsheet from BookRiot that incorporates the Reading Hard Challenge, Litsy A-to-Z Challenge and I’ve added the Travel the World in Books Challenge from Mom’s Small Victories, Fictional 100 and Guiltless Reading. Proud to say my first book of the year went on all 3 lists: *Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay by Elena Ferrante! 4. Continue to update the spreadsheet at a minimum of once/week, preferably immediately as I begin reading a new book.
  • In the past I’ve been a finicky reader, reading only what I’m in the mood to read at any given time. This year my reading is much more deliberate and, yes, focused. 5. For January, I plan to read a nonfiction book written by an Australian author, *Whole Health Life; and a fiction book by a POC – *Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood by Trevor Noah.

The new year stands before us, like a chapter in a book, waiting to be written. We can help write that story by setting goals. ~Melody Beattie

In my life

  • 6. Exercise 4-5 days/week by walking or yoga.
  • I started the *Hormone Reset Diet is December 26th and have just a few more days left in the 21-day cycle. 7. continue eliminating sugar and gluten. So NOT easy, but since I’ve been following the 21-day reset by Dr. Sara Gottfried I have not had a migraine. I want to shout from the rooftops how incredible it has been having 16 days migraine-free! I haven’t experienced that since before my brain injury 20 years ago! You’ll probably see more healthy eating posts on here this year as I revamp my eating from typical southern home cooking to a more health-focused fare. If you have cookbook suggestions I can use all the help I can get!

There’s no reason to have a plan B because it distracts from plan A. ~Will Smith

Wishing you a most wonderful January!

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Family Tragedy and Its Effects in The Sleepwalker

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I received this book for free from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. This does not affect my opinion of the book nor the content of my review.

Family Tragedy and Its Effects in The SleepwalkerThe Sleepwalker by Chris Bohjalian
Published by Doubleday Books on January 10th 2017
Genres: Contemporary, Fiction, Mystery
Pages: 304
Source: complimentary review copy

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Chris Bohjalian is one of those authors I purchase immediately. I’ve yet to read anything formulaic or contrived that he’s written. From parasomnia and human trafficking to World War II and midwives, Bohjalian’s breadth of topics and genres are wide and far-reaching.

In his latest, The Sleepwalker, Annalee Ahlberg disappears while her husband is out of town. Annalee is home alone with her two daughters, Lianna, a senior in college and Paige, a sophmore in high school.   Because Annalee suffers from parasomnia, the worst is feared.

Four years prior, Lianna found her mother on the precipice of a bridge and had to guide her home. Since that incident, Warren has not traveled overnight for work. Annalee has taken medication to help reduce the symptoms. While Lianna has remained her mother’s vigilant watcher.

The Sleepwalker is horrifying in a real-world aspect. My youngest daughter had a habit of sleepwalking until middle school. My mom says I was the same way when I was growing up. We both continue to have long detailed conversations in our sleep. But parasomnia? It is an entirely different level of sleep disturbance.

The first few chapters of The Sleepwalker focuses on the search for Annalee and the family’s response to her disappearance. The middle tended to drag in places, and I found myself skimming paragraphs. Though I wonder if that wasn’t deliberate? I imagine during a tragic disappearance the days drag, life moves slowly and nothing seems to happen. The ending was completely unexpected.

I finished The Sleepwalker a couple of weeks ago and still find myself haunted by the story. The Ahlberg family fractures as a result of Annalee’s disappearance. And isn’t that true-to-life? Families are either made stronger in tragedy or torn apart. What makes or breaks the unit? And that is the underlying question – could your family survive a tragedy? Recommended.

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For further reading, try the short story prequel The Premonition

Many thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for the review copy.





December in Review

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december in review

Happy New Year Lovely Readers! How was your December? Are you looking forward to a new year? For me, a new year brings so much possibility. Fresh starts. New beginnings.

December was a relatively slow reading month for me. Between traveling, family time and life there was not as much time to read as I would have liked. What I did read was all top notch. More to come on Grit and The Sleepwalker!


The Orphan’s Tale by Pam Jenoff {review here}
Grit: Passion, Perseverance and the Science of Success by Angela Duckworth {review coming soon}
The Sleepwalker by Chris Bohjalian {review coming soon}



Best Fiction Read in 2016 – I love to look back over the books read during the past year, don’t you!

How the Circus Saved Innocents in The Orphan’s Tale – I couldn’t wait to tell you about this book! It’s not being released until February 21st, but oh my goodness it was SO GOOD!

7 Must-Have Blogging Resources for #AMonthofFaves – I ended up not being able to participate more in this fantastic month-long challenge, but hopefully 2017 will be different.

13 Amazing Author TED Talks – I’m a huge champion of TED Talks. From anywhere between 4 minutes – 25 minutes, these inspirational, motivational talks are both great entertainment AND immensely educational. If you have know of one you think I’d enjoy, please do let me know!


Normally I’m not big on watching much television or Netflix but these past few months my sweetheart and I have been working our way through The Office. I know, we’re a little late to the office party, but oh wow! so many innuendos and jokes make sense now! We are on the last season now so should be finished sometime January. We need another good show to watch afterward – any suggestions?

After Christmas I had the most awful stomach bug that kicked my tail. I felt too icky to concentrate on reading and couldn’t watch The Office alone so I stumbled upon a new show that rocked my world! If I admit to watching all of Season 1 in just a few days promise not to think too badly of me?!? What’s the show? Oh yeah, that would help, right? Traveler’s – a show exclusively on Netflix. It. Is. Amazing.

Looking forward to January and . . .

A new year. I won’t lament 2016 or talk about how awful it was. This year has got to be better. It simply must.

I’m almost ready for a new dog. Last June my darling Obie had to be put down, and though I’m still grieving, it’s almost time to add a new member to the family. My first love is big dogs – Obie was a standard poodle. AND, I love the poodle intelligence. But, traveling back and forth between Arizona and Georgia is not conducive to a large dog. We would love suggestions on a good travel companion or tips on traveling with a dog if you’ve got some!

Wishing you a most wonderful 2017 and a January filled with love and light.



Word of the Year

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happy new year 2017

I am so ready for a new year, how about you?

Last year was the first time I chose a Word of the Year and it’s ironic how true it became – ‘take action’ was my 2016 word and boy, oh boy, was it a self-fulfilling prophecy!

My sweetheart took a promotion which has upended our lives completely. Now we commute between Arizona and Georgia every month and while it may sound glamorous at first – believe me, it’s not. It took me about four months to get our apartment set up – my goal was to buy everything used/refurbished so the cost would not be so astronomical. We’re pretty darn proud of the result and love having family and friends visit!

Next ‘take action’ was the launch of my new business created with fellow blogger, Helen from My Novel Opinion: The Novel Connection ~ Where Readers and Authors Connect. If you haven’t visited our site yet, please do! Let us know what you think!

So many small actions taken to do both of the above. It’s been a bit overwhelming at times but an incredible adventure all along the way.

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Though, it will be nice for a new word for 2017.



This word came to me in early December in the middle of the night. I couldn’t sleep and felt compelled to read Galatians. When compulsions/God’s whisper compels me like this, I usually try listen, even at 2 am. The Bible I use has an extensive life application commentary for most verses. When I read “If you feel guilty and inadequate, check your focus. Are you living by faith in Christ or by trying to live up to the demands and expectations of others?” Hmmm, do I have to answer that one out loud? 😉 I knew then that focus was my word for 2017. It was like Paul had written Galatians just for me. Funny how that works, right!

For 2017 I plan to focus. In all its connotations.

Have you chosen a word of the year?


Best Fiction Read in 2016

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Best Fiction of 2016

What is the second favorite thing for list makers to do if they’re not making a list? Reading a list! Ok, well, maybe that’s the third favorite thing cause checking off lists is right up there with making a list. But for flow and purposes of this post can we agree reading and checking off lists are one and the same 😉 My ‘upholder’ daughter is cringing if she’s reading this post! “What? Mom, {be sure to add the correct amount of inflection into that ‘mom’} you can’t make up rules like that!” Poor thing ~ it’s hard having a rebel for a mom and for a husband!

But I digress – you’re here for the list, right?

General Fiction

Favorite reads from 2016
Small Great Things
by Jodi Picoult
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Timely. Scary. And unfortunately, based on a true occurrence.

My Brilliant Friend and The Story of a New Name by Elena Ferrante
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It took me awhile to finally pick up the first in the Neapolitan quintet, but oh my goodness when I finally read My Brilliant Friend, I could totally see why these books were taking the world by storm. Reading this quintet is a completely immersive experience. Some of the best storytelling I’ve ever read.

State of Wonder by Ann Patchett
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My first Ann Patchett book and definitely will not be my last.

The Readers of Broken Wheel Recommend by Katarina Bivald
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ovely, feel-good book about those who love books. Had me laughing, crying and sometimes both at the same time. Loved it!

Science Fiction

by Justin Cronin
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 resisted reading this one for so long because I’d read it was about vampires. I’ve been over vampires since before vampires were even a thing, so I really didn’t want a ‘vampire’ novel. This is more end-of-the-world-as-we-know-it plague kind-of book. And phenomenal.


Best thrillers of 2016
The Kept Woman
by Karin Slaughter
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Karin Slaughter is one of those authors I automatically buy. She never fails to live up to the hype, and I’m always impressed with the detail and focus she brings to crimes against women.

The Guest Room by Chris Bohjilian
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Another author I automatically buy. Chris Bohjilian’s novels are in that same social consciousness category as Jodi Picoult’s. Both authors tackle a current issue in each of their books with deft and precision.

What are some of your favorite reads from 2016?


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